Living with pain_ How do the people around us impact our minds

Does our fam affect our mindset?

They say:

        "Society moulds a man."

We will start by an example of two kids raised in different families. One family is highly protective of the kid and does whatever it requires to make him stop crying. When this kid grows up he will have developed the habit of been taken care of and getting whatever he wishes either by will or by force. Hard-work becomes an obsolete idea. 

On the other hand, the other family also takes care of their kid but instead say No when needed. And rewards the kid with an occasional treats when he does something good. In this process, where the kid learns the difference between good and bad, he also learns to work hard. 

Now, when these kids grow up and are faced with same problem. Both are gonna react differently. The former is more likely to panic and not know how to handle it while latter more probably will know how to handle the situation. 

Kids who aren't prepared for difficult times are at higher risk to develop mental issues than the ones who have been gradually introduced by their parents to important life lessons like hard-work and perseverance and are also mentally strong.(you may also wanna see)

Not to forget that to much strictness may also lead to mental deterioration, hence anxiety and mental health issues later in life. Although a parents love towards their kids is unconditional but they should learn to say NO every once in a while. For the kid's betterment and good future.

Further evidence can be found when a kid is sent to school. Kids gradually change with the course of time. They adopt habits from their friends, good or bad. Note, that at school kids come from all different family backgrounds, all brought up differently. And since a kid's mind is yet maturing, when he find something new. Its amuses him and he tends to adopt it.

Changes become more evident when they start high school. This is when they have adopted so much from outside community and friends that they begin to contradict with their parents. And since parents also tend not to explain their decisions or make their children understand the whats and whys of their No's. Kids become estranged from their parents and rebel.

During this phase, in the venture to hurt their parents, they destroy their own life And when reality hits them, and life becomes difficult, and their minds are unable to cope with it. Therefore, leading to a miserable life and sometimes anxiety and depression. 

On the contrary who are prepared for life, know the importance of hard-work and lead a successful life.

So, to wrap it up is it important to prepare kids for life? YES. 

How do we do that? BY GRADUALLY INTRODUCING THEM TO THE IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS. 

What will it do? MAKE THEM STRONG MENTALLY.


ASK 100 DEPRESSED PEOPLE AND ABOUT 60% OR MORE WILL HAVE HAD A TROUBLED CHILDHOOD OR PARENTS WHO SPOILED THEM TOO MUCH.

A HEALTHY MENTAL DEVELOPMENT IN EARLY LIFE IS BETTER THAN A MILLION THERAPIES IN ADULT LIFE.

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